View from Airport Window.




Just checked in JFK. Now I'm waiting for them to call us to board the plane.

I completely forgot how expensive terminals are. A chicken sandwich no bigger than the palm of my hand cost $9.00!

While standing in line a little kid, looked like ages 6 to 8, cut in front of me and tried to play cute. Apparently his mother sent him to get coffee for her while she stood outside the long line. The woman directly in front of me and myself started trash talking the neglectful mother.

Leaving a child alone in an airport is about as crazy as you can get. It's basically like putting a tag on the kid that says "kidnap me".

Anywoo, the flight is about to take off time to go until the next update.

-- Post From My iPhone
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On Vacation

Hey Y'alls,

Just wanted to mention that I'm going on vacation for the fourth of July weekend and the following week, so I probably won't be posting since much since I think where I am going still uses dial-up.

Not to worry, I will catch up when I return.

Have a great Independence Day!
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"Straightlaced"

Awesome blogger and Women & Gender Studies graduate student Trevor Hoppe posted on his blog the trailer of new documentary called Straightlaced: How Gender's Got Us All Tied Up which he recently saw at a screening.

If the title didn't give it away, I'm already in love with the premise of the documentary and from what I have seen from the trailer. It totally reminded why I feel in love with Gender Studies and feminism in college.

Below is the trailer and link to Hoppe's blog to read his reaction to the film.

Read Hoppe's take on the film here.
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Excerpt: Revisiting "Gay is the New Black"

Like I wrote in the previous post, The New Gay will publish the piece I wrote for them sometime in the near future (hopefully I didn't fill the piece with grammatical errors--again), in the meantime I was able to finish the other piece I said I was working on, Revisiting "Gay is the New Black", a bit early.

The piece itself is shorter than I wanted, but I was able to flush out all of the ideas that I wanted to so I'm content, plus I was not under any pressure to make the piece a certain length.

It is clear that the issue of ethnicity and its role in the Queer community has come once again to the forefront of my mind, which I am rather glad to have be the case since it is one of my favorite topics to write about; and I am fortunate that I have come across a lot of materials--thanks to Queerty--about the very topic. So probably the next piece I am going to write about will be about the lack of visibility of African-Americans in particular in the queer community.

A lot of people have suggested that it is because African-Americans are by and large closeted and want to have the White gay community do the work for them. When I heard that I got very upset, and while there is no dispute that African-American men have developed an intricate closet subculture, there are a lot of out and open Queer Africans-Americans and organizations that do a lot of work, but not get the recognition from the establish gay press as they should. But I'll get to more of that later.

I'm going to try and get a couple of other pieces out before I go on vacation on Thursday; however, I will just have to see how far I get with that.

Anyway, here's an excerpt from the current final draft of Revisiting "Gay is the New Black":
Last December Advocate magazine ran a cover that caused some controversy throughout the queer community about the status of queer rights in America. It was immediately after Prop 8 passed in California and many people had begun to look at the totality of progress and setbacks as it relates to queer rights over the years and wondered if queer-rights would the civil rights issue of our generation. The cover story was rather simply but yet profound, "Gay is the New Black: The Last Great Civil Rights Struggle" [...]

[...]It did not take long for reactions to pour in from all corners of the queer community. Some unequivocally said, "yes"; while others expressed some hesitation with what the title was alluding to. And then there were some that criticized the title for suggesting the idea that the plight of African-Americans for equality was over--after all as some would argue candidate Obama's election as President confirmed it--and we as a country could move on to the final frontier, queer-rights.[...]

[...]One thing that seemed obvious, even to those that disagreed with the rhetoric of the title, was that queer-rights had moved to the front burner across the country and in the nation's capital. What would previously had been a trump card for social-conservatives to pull out during tough campaigns, such as the Bush versus Kerry campaigns in 2004, had now become a topic at the forefront in many state legislatures and ballots, the national press, the halls of the Pentagon, and the floor of the United States Congress more so than ever before. And it has since only intensified and shown no sign of retreating into obscurity. [...]

[...]Culturally the nation is changing faster than the establishment in the capital can adjust. Americans across the board have been exposed to the lives and experiences of Queer-Americans. Queer people are no longer portrayed as the sexually ambiguous characters like Uncle Arthur from Bewitched the menacing homosexual figure from the 1960s PSA Boys Beware of the Homosexual. Many Americans now know of a queer person, whether at the work place, as a relative, or as a friend; and as a result have become aware of the struggles Queer-Americans and families must go through.
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Possible new articles in the works...

I just finished a short piece I sent over to the staff at The New Gay to review and decide if they want to publish it, entitled Can D.C. change the face of the Queer Rights Movement? The article was the brain child of two articles that I came across recently, one was from Queerty, its "We've trained the media to think we're rich and white. That's a Problem." article, which was thought provoking; and Adam Serwer's recent piece from The American Prospect about African-Americans leading the fight in the District against protest of the City Council's recent decision to recognize out-of-state marriage licenses.

I won't know if the folks at TNG will decide to publish it for a couple of days possible. Hopefully they will, I like getting ideas out there and seeing what response they produce; however, if they do not I will just post the entire piece here--which I might just do anyway for records' sake. I've included an excerpt below as a teaser.

I've published both, technically three, of my pieces before with them--though that alone does not translate to a guarantee. One was apparently riddled with grammatical errors--my curse in life, clearly--so I was extra careful this time around.

Also in the works is another piece, possibly longer, tentatively titled "Revisiting "Gay is the New Black". The phrase emerged really last year after Prop 8 and caused some controversy; however, I think the dust has settled now and there is something to be said about Queer-rights being uniquely the civil rights issue of our generation, while we continue the fight for equal rights and equal protection for ethnic minorities and women. I do not want to give it all away yet, it's still very much in a draft phase. Hopefully I can get it complete by the of the week, before I go on vacation.

Here's an excerpt from Can D.C. change the face of the Queer Rights Movement?:
One of the criticisms often levied against the queer community today is that it has failed to be representative of the very people that compose it, particularly on the national level; and has instead perpetuated a very narrow classification of what it means to be queer. The people that fall outside of this classification include people from ethnic minorities, women, the uneducated, those from the lower end of the socio-economic spectrum, and others. These people and their backgrounds have largely been absent from the cultural dialog we have had over the years about what it means to be queer in America.

As a result our collective perception of what it means to be queer today is very different from the facts on the ground. This quagmire has often been exploited by social-conservatives to depict queer people as privileged elitist, rather than everyday people who, unfortunately, still live as second-class citizens in our democracy[...]
The reactionary response from the queer-community to Prop 8 and its support among people of color highlighted the failure of proper proactive steps which could have prevented the measure from passing in the first place during the campaign. What has now been seen as a clear misstep on the part of No On 8 organizers was the failure to appropriately reach out and actively work with communities of color to combat the other side, which was actively working within communities of color and their places of worship[...]
While it is unfortunately painstakingly clear that the conservative-religious hold in the African-American community contributes greatly to the sizable percentage of disapproval within the community, it is not a community where all hope is lost. In recent years we have seen several prominent voices in the African-American community speak out passionately for queer-rights, such as the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People, NAACP, the Congressional Black Caucus, CBC, and some religious leaders. And we have seen the Queer community through various venues begin to reach out.

As always I will be sure to update on the progress of things.

Update Tuesday, June 30th 11:53AM:
Just received an email from Michael, one of TNG's Co-Founders, that they are doing to publish the piece.
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Enough Said: Knuckle Crack on Pride 2009

Pride Month has almost come and gone, it always seems so brief, too brief in fact. As is tradition I was in Boston for the Pride celebration there, which was amazing, as always. There is nothing like it ever. Spending the day with friends enjoying the progress and openness of the city. I said on Queerty the other day, while the queer community does a lot stupid shit regularly, Pride is very much like shower that just washes it all away and lets you start over again. I always inadvertently realize and re-appreciate all of the good traits the queer community has to offer.

I remember when I was visiting someone had asked where all of the conservatives protesters would be standing during the parade, and I laughed because I could not for the life of me ever remember coming across any, besides the usual folks that stand in the Boston Common that hold up "Jesus or Hell" signs. I told the person that it was Boston, conservatives have long since given up on this place so there really are no major protest.

We did see one guy who stood by the parade route. I heard several participants in the Parade came up to him and took silly pictures with him as he frowned. Only in Boston. There were some others gathered, but they were only a handful and really did not bother anyone.

I've spent a lot of time contemplating what my "Pride entry" should be about, and have had extreme difficulty coming up with something. There is always more to talk about than there seems room in one blog post. So much has happened since last year's pride, it's almost two unrecognizable worlds. And yet, there is still so much to do.

One (rather handsome) blogger, Knuckle Crack, also known as Eric Levin, who I read regularly wrote an entry for his blog that summed up my thoughts pretty well on Pride this year. I figured if he could do it so well I shouldn't waste time trying to redo it, but rather point readers of this entry in his direction.

Here's an excerpt:
Ordinarily I'd try and write some lovey-dovey, all inclusive post about Pride. I would probably make it more difficult on myself by trying to write in prose, be dramatic and aim for the tear ducts. I'd struggle to tap into that root source of what all the love and visibility and pride truly mean. But I don't feel like it this year. I know what it all means. I know how love and visibility and pride twacks my heart and stirs my consciousness. I don't need to convince myself any further...

...Walking with Drags, the Dykes and the entire community one bewildering question came to mind repeatedly, "How can anyone hate our community? Why would anyone want to detract from this color, this vibrancy, this diversity, this joy?" Never have I seen a greater celebration of life than within these marches. It's all so motivating, so inspiring: the fight, the cause, the oppression, celebration, tragedy and romantics that is our lifestyle. All of us together under the same banner. A community. The thought alone drives light into my body, surging through my veins and beaming out of my pores.

Please read the rest of Levin's thoughts on Pride 2009 here.
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Obama's Ambiguous Relationship with the Queer Community

After days of speculating and the White House has confirmed on that on Monday June 29th, the President will host a Pride Reception in the White House; and has invited a several prominent leaders from the queer-community to attend the event, as well as families with gay parents, and other Queer-Americans in celebration of the Stonewall Riots. The White House also confirms that the President plans to attend the event.

All of this is a very welcomed symbolic gesture by the President and his administration to what has been nothing short of a tremendously rocky relationship with the queer--community since the President took office in January, in fact since he announced Rev. Rick Warren would be speaking at his inauguration last year. However, is it "too little, too late" to repair the damage that was done?

It has been difficult to discern how supportive of an ally the President wants to be, as we have been receiving nothing but mix signals from him and his administration. Like Americans general support for the President and his policies, there is a stark difference between the two for Queer-Americans.

At the rhetoric end of things the President has maintained his stance that he is committed to fulfilling his campaign process, and displayed public supportive for Queer-Americans, such as declaring June LGBT Pride Month, inviting gay-families to the annual White House egg hunt, and saying that he maintained committing to repealing both the Defense of Marriage Act and the controversial Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

However, on the policy end things have been quite difference, which has fueled the hostilities, that are only now showing signs of cooling down. While many debate whether or not the President should have defended the DOMA case, all generally agree that the rhetoric used to defend the law was not becoming of a supportive ally. The President has also gotten some heat from progressives and queer-advocates because he has yet to make a substantial move on Don't Ask, Don't Tell, and deflected responsibility on that issue to Congress.

There are now signs that things are changing, both the policy and rhetorical end; and it could not have come any sooner for Democrats, who were losing important donors for the annual fundraiser. The President has expanded some rights to federally employed same-sex couples (though not as much as many had hoped for or initially thought), expanded some benefits to Trans-Americans, will allow married same-sex couples to carry their married name on their passports, called on Congress to pass legislation to repeal the DOMA.

While many have simplified the President's actions to him primarily trying to stay in good favor with a loyal voting and donating block of the Democratic Party, which surely played some part of the political calculation, these changes still represent a significant step forward for Queer-Americans.

When the President signed the executive memorandum last week Wednesday expanding some rights to federally employed same-sex couples, he made his desire known that he wants Congress to provide him with the legislation on DOMA (and presumably DADT as well) sooner rather than later. It was that part of the ceremony that most observers were closely watching.

Until that point other than simply reaffirming his commitment to the Queer community--which at that point had become rather trite--the President had not publicly said anything directed at the Congress to send him legislation on gay-rights to sign. The President's silence was a fact that many contributed to the snail like pace the current legislation in the Congress has making its way through the House and to the Senate, such as Rep. Ellen Tauscher bill, the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, which would repeal the Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy.

The President remains a polarizing figure in the Queer community. His ambiguousness as to how supportive of an ally he considers himself, and how that translates to getting through the necessary legislation, has left many befuddled and confused. While he is the most queer-friendly President for any president that has had to deal with the gay-issue his track record is marred with policy and political decisions that have angered and frustrated many.

While the President has yet to strike out, he is coming up from behind. Monday's Pride Reception will likely be an important opportunity for the President to reset his relationship with the queer community if he handles it well. If he simply treats the event as nothing more than a political photo opt, he is likely to get berated by many as trying to procrastinate even further; however, if he can lay the foundation for the road ahead he just maybe might have done the impossible yet again.
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Justice Powwow with Queer Advocates. What's on the agenda?

The Justice Department will be having a meeting queer advocacy and legal groups this week, reports Greg Sargent on his blog, The Plum Line. (See Obama Administration Set To Hold Powwow With Big Gay Groups) The meeting will surely be an interesting one, as the Justice Department has landed itself, and it's boss, President Obama, in a lot of hot water after the recent court case where the department defended the Defense of Marriage Act, and used the divisive rhetoric of the past administration.

On one hand the meeting seems like an event clearly for show, to a loyal demographic that has become increasingly frustrated with the administration, since Press Secretary Gibbs claims that the administration has to do defend challenges to DOMA (even though some counter that is not the case). However, it could also be a significant step in mapping out the legal work from this point forward.

It seems clear now that the administration made a mistake in defending the case the way they did and underestimated the outrage it would cause through the queer and progressive community. The administration has tried to walk back and do some damage control, especially in preparation for the upcoming fundraiser that is losing attendees, i.e. big donors, by the day (see here).

Hopefully the queer advocacy and legal groups invited to the meeting will make it the opportunity to press for more immediate action from Justice in advancing the President's queer agenda, such the DADT case involving Major Margret White and other DOMA cases around the country.

Unfortunately, the truth of the matter is Justice's hand are somewhat tied while Congress remains silent on queer-rights issues and bills; and besides choosing not defend a DOMA or DADT case when it comes up in court, the department does not seem able to do very much.

There may be other small cases where the Justice Department can make a progressive step forward. For the administration has already stated that from its intepretation of DOMA same-sex marriages will be counted in census. Nevertheless, it does not very logical to expect major changes after this meeting. (Though I optimistically hope that is not the case.)

Symbolically the meeting does say a lot; however, at this point, after so many disappointing steps back, symbolism does not seem to have the same amount of traction as it once did for the administration as it relates the queer community. Queer-Americans largely express the desire to see action take now, rather than merely inclusive rhetoric.

Who knows. Last's week signing of the expansion of some benefits, might have been the turning point for the administration, after months of coxing and protest by progressives and some Democrats in Congress. We can hope.
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